Pencil dick problems - Using thin girth penis to satisfy women

Discussion in 'Sex and Sexual Health Forum' started by gordon32, Aug 27, 2018.

  1. gordon32

    gordon32 New Member

    I have, what I used to think was, an above average dick. 7” BPEL and 4.25" girth at the base and 4" in the middle. I have always had a good sex life, no complaints from any of my partners. I have been doing some research lately, and have found myself to be lacking in the girth department. I think my dick is too thin. In fact, I measured myself only after researching about penis sizes on the internet. All this has led to self-doubt and I am worried I would not be able to satisfy my partners. I even keep thinking whether I have ever been able to satisfy any of my partners, ever? I wish my girth was above 5 inches, which was considered average on the survey page.

    Help a brother out, guys.
     
  2. Neo

    Neo New Member

    Wow, man. You worry too much. You are what people would call ‘average’. I would say, length wise you are more than average.
     
  3. supremeshit

    supremeshit New Member

    What you have is what many people want. It is a perfectly fine penis. As it is, it’s more about how you use it. Just try rubbing her G-spot as much as possible. Whatever position you try, change your angles often and keep track of which one works best for her.

    There are some PE routines you can try and increase your girth if you want. I gained about 0.25 inches in 8 weeks. The difference of 0.25 inches won’t be much noticeable in your case though. To be frank, I began at 5 and most of my partners have hardly noticed increase in my girth. They all are satisfied by the end of the act, though. As I said earlier, it’s all about how you use it.

    Keep in mind that you can’t please everyone. But, with your dick, 99% of your partners would be satisfied. Stop doubting yourself.
     
  4. gordon32

    gordon32 New Member

    Thanks for the reply. That certainly lifted my spirits. I started the JP90 routine a couple of months ago, but due to a busy work schedule, I have not been able to keep it regular. I gained about 0.15 inches, but soon it was back to its original girth. I have a somewhat leaner work schedule in the near future, and hope to start again this weekend.
    P.S.: it’s not like the JP90 has not worked at all, I have positively gained in BPFSL.
     
  5. BigCat

    BigCat Member

    It’s nice to hear a guy worrying about satisfying his partners. You have nothing to worry about your size though. You have more than adequate length and girth to satisfy a woman. You may have stumbled upon the wrong material while researching online. Instead of comparing dick sizes, go ahead and learn a bit more about the average woman’s vagina. There are plenty reading material available online.
     
  6. barry41

    barry41 New Member

    As for girth increasing exercises, apart from the JP90, you can find other useful do jelqing exercises. You can even try using a penis pump like the Penomate, from what I know, they are the best to increase the overall size.
     
  7. faceless

    faceless New Member

    As everyone above me has said, stop worrying too much. From whatever I have read so far, you have a combination of average girth with length which is above average. That’s what is making it appear thinner to you.
     
  8. Rad

    Rad New Member

    Self-doubt is only going to psychologically harm you. How is it going to help you if you keep thinking of yourself as unable to satisfy your partners? Instead, work with what instrument you have and rock her world with it. Let that positive vibe flow from you when you have sex. First love yourself, to learn to love others. Let no piece of crap internet survey define how you feel.
     
  9. Qman

    Qman New Member

    As supremeshitsupremeshit said, many people want what you have. I am one of those people. I am smaller than you in all aspects, and I envy you.
     
  10. nitwit

    nitwit New Member

    At least you have an active sex life. My size is a little smaller than you and I am terrified of having sex. I am trying jelqing and have ways to go before I will be able to reach your length and girth. But I am very good at giving oral sex I am told, I compensate I guess.
     
  11. WhiteFlower

    WhiteFlower New Member

    Wow, stop with the self-pity and self-loathing and get on with your life. Be happy that you have a penis, and enjoy your life, negativity is only going to hurt you. Both OP and the person above - you have fine penises. Stop this unnecessary stressing over non issues. Be positive. You have a perfectly good body and a perfectly good dick. Porn has ruined your way of looking at it. Love yourself, love your penis.

    And even if it was very thin, learn to use it right. Find our G-Spot and rub your penis there. If you can use your tongue down under, we love it - some of us have really sensitive breasts. I can almost come if I am fingered mildly while my breasts are pampered. Love your girl, feel the love and passion and it will be good!!
     
  12. Shrek

    Shrek New Member

    Come on now guys. I can make my partner cum without even using my penis. She will be left satisfied and fulfilled. There literally are so many ways to make love. These insecurities are not good for you. Try to get over them. Get professional help, if needed.
    If you think all a woman cares about in a man is his penis size, you are so wrong.